Parenthood Day 9
Daddy’s in bed taking a nap, a much needed nap. Last night Vienna cried off & on for nearly an hour no real reason (other than maybe gas!) and poor Sam stayed up trying to calm her so that I could get some sleep. I tell you, it is very frustrating not knowing what she wants or how to help her when she cries like that. It wears you out.
So far parenthood’s been great! For the most part she sleeps well, eats well, and doesn’t even seem to mind getting her diaper changed. All in all it seems we’ve got a pretty laid back baby (taking after her father… wwhheeewww!!!) She doesn’t do much more than eat, sleep and soil diapers, but she brings SUCH joy to this house.Â
For me (Melissa) it’s the promotion I’ve waited a lifetime for. Though sometimes I worry I’m not going to do something right, for the most part it’s been very comfortable bringing her home, I guess I’ve just spent so many years of my life imagining this moment. I sit and stare at my daughter (my daughter..wow,just to be able to say that!!) and wonder what she’s going to grow to look like, to be like, to enjoy… will she be sporty? musical? a cheerleader (please Lord, not sure I can handle that!!) Will her hair turn blond? darken? Will she look like Sam? Me? aww… but must of all it’s just so much fun watching her little face contort as she dreams away.Â
It’s also wonderful not being pregnant anymore. I don’t know who these women are that say they just LOVED being pregnant are… but from my experience they HAVE to either be lying or have a sever case of pregnancy amnesia!! The last two months of pregnancy I was simply miserable, so much so Sam’s not sure HE’S ready to go through that again just yet!! But even before that amnesia kicks in we agree Vienna is worth it!Â
One thing I wasn’t prepared for either is the enjoyment of watching her with her grandparents! My parents are just so in love with her already… its fun to see them enjoying her. Not to mention watching Vienna with her daddy! ooohhh… talk about tweaking at your heart!! Sam’s already such a good daddy, and wonderful husband, that it just makes me wanna scream with joy (I know, but I’m a loud person by nature…)
Anyway… the sheer amount of people calling to congratulate us, to stop by and meet our daughter, who have given us clothes for her and have been so encouraging and excited for us… its humbling to see how many people care about us and are so happy for us. We feel so blessed and so thankful to have just been able to have Vienna, but then to have so many excited for us as well… it’s a double blessing!Â









